The Friendship Fix: What They Don’t Teach in School

People loveeee to say, “They don’t teach you how to do taxes in school.”

Sure, taxes matter, but what about relationships? Friendships make life worth it, but we’re left figuring them out on our own.

Friendship is the real-life skill they don’t teach you at school. You learn math and grammar, but no one explains how to be a good friend or stay connected as life gets busy. Yet friendships are what keep your life balanced.

As a kid, friendships come easily. You’re thrown together, and bonds form naturally. But as you grow up, life pulls you in different directions. If you’re not careful, those close connections can quietly fade.

Think about it, are you still friends with the same people you were friends with five years ago? Is it because someone moved? Or it just faded?

Here’s the thing: Friendship takes effort. It’s like a plant—you can’t water it once and expect it to thrive. It’s about the little things: sending a quick “Hey” text, planning catch-ups, or reacting to their stories. Small, consistent actions keep friendships alive.

Being a good friend isn’t about being perfect. It’s about showing up, celebrating their wins, supporting them during tough times, and listening—really listening. It’s also about being reliable and owning your mistakes when they happen.

The biggest problem:

👉👉👉 Social media gives the illusion of connection while we’re just scrolling.

Busy schedules push friendships down the to-do list. Like Simon Sinek says, we're more OK with canceling on friends than meetings.

That’s why we created Favs—a space to help you stay close to the people who matter. No distractions, just meaningful moments. With Favs, it’s easy to check in and share what’s going on. Share upcoming plans, or share a little "I'm thinking of you" with a drag and drop.

The people who cheer you on and lift you up are worth the effort.

As 2025 comes around, start small.

Send that text.

Make those plans.

Or hop on Favs and make staying connected part of your routine. Even a simple “I appreciate you” can go a long way.

Friendship isn’t always easy, but it’s always worth it. The best memories, the funniest moments, and the most meaningful connections are all shared. So take a moment today to think about your friends and ask, “How can I show up for them?”

You already know this, but I guarantee you - the more you invest in your friendships, the richer your life will be.